On Mentorship and the Lessons that Return

We often believe guidance flows in one direction until someone gently proves otherwise. Sometimes the person you are guiding is quietly guiding you back.

When I reached out to a former intern and asked her to share one moment from our time together that had stayed with her, I was not prepared for the warmth of her reply. She wrote back immediately, and that alone moved me.

She remembered some interesting things about me - the morning energy I brought into the office in Addis Ababa; the positive way in which I spoke about the power that Africans hold to drive change across the continent; the small, deliberate insistence on paying attention to details including taking visuals seriously as tools for storytellin. She remembered being treated as an equal despite being an intern with no prior experience working for the United Nations, and how that made her feel genuinely valued.

Nardos Girma Wolde gave as much as she received. I had watched her from the beginning with quiet admiration. Her intelligence was evident, but it was her curiosity that truly stood out. She immersed herself in every task with diligence and grace, asking questions without hesitation, embracing challenges without complaint. When the team entrusted her with translating the Mandela Rules into Amharic for training and supporting major criminal justice events, she brought a professionalism that felt far beyond her years.

Reading her reflections about me and her time as an intern, I realised she had absorbed not just the lessons of her internship, but the spirit behind them. Nardos ended her message with a generous suggestion to me: that I continue inspiring young African women, share more of my leadership journey, and perhaps one day build a structured platform to support the next generation of leaders. It is a suggestion I held closely and worked on and which has now emerged as the Mindset-to-Output Mentorship Programme.

I want to say something she did not ask for, because it deserves to be said. The intern shapes the mentor just as profoundly as the mentor shapes the intern. Nardos’s willingness to grow, to show up fully, to bring her whole self into rooms that were still unfamiliar to her, reminded me why this work matters so deeply. As the African proverb goes, “However long the night, the dawn will break.” Sometimes, the dawn arrives in the form of a young woman who is quietly, courageously becoming herself, and taking you along with her.

Nardos is a lawyer from Ethiopia with a Master’s degree in Human Rights from Addis Ababa University. She is a Leadership and Advocacy for Women in Africa (LAWA) Fellow currently pursuing an LLM in Technology Law and Policy at Georgetown Law in Washington, DC.

Nardos is deeply committed to contributing to Ethiopia’s rapidly evolving technology law and policy landscape. Her passion lies in the intersection of technology and human rights, critical at this time when AI is reshaping governance, rights, and public life. Nardos aspires to play a meaningful leadership role in this space and help ensure that Ethiopia’s digital future is grounded in rights, equity, and accountability. Nardos previously worked at the National Election Board of Ethiopia and was an intern at UNODC Ethiopia.